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So many people are STRUGGLING all over the world.

Am seeing people growing old but do not know why they were born, they live a life without purpose. what a tragedy.

Without a purpose life has no meaning, no sense of destiny. Every human wants to be successful but the outcome always is negative because many are existing without knowing why,

You may choose to agree or disagree with me but the truth is, many people (almost 90% of our population) particularly in African will die without achieving even 10% of their true ability,

You go to work that you don’t like, you meet the boss you hate, paid less that you work, what follows is frustrated individual full of confusion,  who die too early because of frustrations.

Look at the world today…..

Crime is on the rise, both internationally and domestically. It seems every time I turn on the news, there’s a new problem arising. Whether it’s terror attacks, political problems or an economic crisis…

I’ve seen a seismic shift in the atmosphere. I’ve had conversations with people who say they don’t even feel safe in their own homes anymore.

The violence is not slowing down – it’s actually spreading, day by day…

Everyone has theirown theory of why this is happening. As for me, I believe the reason is far simpler than most think…

It comes down to people losing hope. It comes down to this: people no longer believe that they can live the lives of their dreams…

Everyone feels cheated. Everyone feels let down. Everyone feels hopeless

…and they’re blaming everyone else around them!

Why the World Is Falling Apart?

The truth is that we’ve all fallen into a Scarcity mindset. Suddenly if we want something, it means that the others can’t have that one thing as well. If they do, we feel we need to snatch it away from them!

People are…..

  • Struggling in their personal lives…
  • Struggling to take care of their families…
  • Struggling to nurture their relationships…

But, most of all?

  • Struggling to make any of their dreams come true…

Every day, we’re being mis-guided and mis-taught. The result of all this bad direction is that our dreams are getting further and further from us.  Our sense of hope and inspiration is being replaced by anger and jealousy…

…yet, the solution is actually pretty simple…

If we could allstartmaking our personal dreams come true, one person at a time, this entire World would look entirely different.

People are frustrated. You go through school and education expecting that “the system” will take care of us. Only realizing that despite the system (education) is good, but cannot make you the person you always wanted to be.

We’re sold false hope and as every day goes by, we’re realizing more and more just how bad things are. At the same time, we feel we’ve already done everything in our power…

So, what can we possibly do now? Where’s the hope?

Here is a simple but an honest question…

Are You Fed-Up of Constantly Trying, Only To Fail Over & Over?

Although it seems tougher today than ever before to live your dream lives, the irony is that we have it easier today than ever before!

  • Unlimited resources.
  • Unlimited reach.
  • Unlimited potential.
  • Unlimited access.
  • All at our finger-tips…

However, that is all useless if we don’t know how to use it and why we are on this planet earth. We’ve fallen so far off the right path that we are officially lost now. We’re surrounded by bad news, lack of hope and no solutions…

The flat truth is that we’re not empowered with the skills to make our dreams come true.


Quick honestly.  We’re taught skills that directly work against us.  We’re taught to live life in a way that nearly guarantees we’ll never make our own dreams come true.

We actually end up spending our lives making the dreams of others come true!

You are the one to make decision, you must decide if you are going to rob the world by doing what you were meant to do(fulfilling your dream) or bless it with the rich, valuable, potent, untapped resources locked away within you(dying with everything in you, without fulfilling your dream), die empty.

Golden Mbeya

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  1. Nathan Meki December 13, 2016 at 7:20 pm -  Reply

    This is powerful

  2. Bless Chitsonga December 14, 2016 at 2:19 am -  Reply


  3. Cornelius Thunga December 14, 2016 at 5:54 am -  Reply


  4. Dorothy Mkandawire December 14, 2016 at 6:23 am -  Reply


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  7. Mercy Chirwa December 14, 2016 at 7:36 am -  Reply


  8. Elder Chesterfari December 14, 2016 at 7:39 am -  Reply


  9. Faith Marega December 14, 2016 at 7:53 am -  Reply

    Mwayakhulakot za mzeru kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk mumaganizax nthw zina

  10. Charles Salima December 14, 2016 at 8:16 am -  Reply

    So what have you done seeing those struggling with life? Do you just sit and watch? It starts with u, or us lets make this country a good place to leave for everyone, let’s help those in need of help. You know what bro Africans amaze me we are always happy seeing someone’s downfall instead of lifting him/ her up. Such a life can’t develop our country, should we always wait for Europeans or Americans to come and give a loaf of bread to our friend while in our fridges many loaves of bread are growing Moulds? Lets Start giving now. Thanks for coming with up such a great motion you are a real parliamentarian

  11. Edna Chagoma December 14, 2016 at 10:04 am -  Reply

    Oh that’s wonderful and encouraged

  12. Joyce Mdoko December 14, 2016 at 10:24 am -  Reply
  13. Joyce Mdoko December 14, 2016 at 10:25 am -  Reply

    Charles Salima,for your words of inspiration!

    • Charles Salima December 14, 2016 at 5:57 pm -  Reply

      A big hand sister

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  20. Faless Thom December 14, 2016 at 6:00 pm -  Reply

    True, where were you all this time?

  21. Jacob Chisoni December 14, 2016 at 6:06 pm -  Reply

    It needs spiritual understanding.Lo

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